In Her Name … (him too!)

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We share tools and resources to help you and your loved ones cope with mental health issues, specifically depression, social anxiety, bullying, and suicide.

If you are considering hurting yourself, please call or text 988 now.

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If you're in the Boca Raton area of Florida and are interested in joining a meetup to gain insights about depression, social anxiety, bullying, and suicide prevention, whether for yourself or your child, please reach out to us for details on the upcoming sessions.

Suicide is a Silent Crisis

Suicide is a silent crisis. It was the 2nd leading cause of death for ages 10–14 and 25–34, and the 3rd for ages 15–24. Please check on your “happy” friends, they may smile on the outside, but silently struggle on the inside. These numbers are more than statistics, they are real lives and real people who felt alone.

If you or someone you know is in Mental distress, CALL or TEXT 988 or go to https://988lifeline.org for help.

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  • If you are struggling with your mental health, please know you don’t have to go through it alone. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it is a courageous step toward healing. It is okay to say “I’m not okay.” It is okay to reach out to a friend, a family member, a therapist, or a crisis line. There is support, and there are people who truly care about you. You matter, and your feelings are valid. Help is always available, just one conversation away. If you need someone to talk to, call or text 988 anytime. You are not alone.

  • Suicide prevention starts with all of us; it begins with compassion, listening, and checking in on the people around us. A simple text, a call, or asking “How are you really doing?” can open the door for someone who feels alone. We may not have all the answers, but we all have the power to show kindness, offer support, and remind others that their lives matter.

  • I highly recommend The Let Them Theory book if you are struggling with your mental health or have a loved one who is struggling. The book reminds us that we don't have to control everything or everyone.... and so much more.

  • In a world where you can be anything: famous, successful, admired,.... please choose to be kind. Kindness costs nothing, but it can mean everything to someone who is struggling with their mental health. A gentle word, a listening ear, or a small act of compassion can change someone’s day or even save their life. You never know what battles others are facing, so choose kindness, always. Being a kind person is one of the most powerful things you can be.

  • Grieving for a loved one is a heartbreak filled with the aches of what could have been. Today, I woke up wishing I could hear her voice again. 😞

  • Let’s be better humans. So many people are silently struggling with their mental health, carrying pain we may never see. A smile can hide sadness, and a laugh can hide loneliness. You never truly know what someone is going through. That is why kindness matters. A small act of compassion, a gentle word, or simply choosing empathy can make a world of difference in someone’s life.

  • Depression is real. It’s not just feeling sad, it’s often an invisible struggle that can affect every part of your life. If you're feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or lost, please know you're not alone. Asking for help is not a weakness; it’s an act of strength and self-care. Whether it’s talking to family members, a trusted friend, a mental health professional, or reaching out to the 988 Lifeline, support is available and healing is possible. Please don’t be afraid to ask for help.

  • Pretending to be okay when you’re not is exhausting, and it’s not the answer. If you’re struggling with your mental health, please don’t suffer in silence. You don’t have to put on a brave face or carry the weight alone. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it’s a sign of strength. It means you are choosing to fight for yourself, to heal, and to hope. You are not alone. Talk to someone you trust, reach out to a therapist, or call or text 988 to speak with a trained crisis counselor 24/7. Your pain is real; your life matters, and help is available.

  • Your mental health matters more than you may realize. Taking care of your mind and heart is just as important as caring for your body. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it is an act of courage. It means you are choosing to keep going, to reach for support, and to believe that healing is possible. Whether you talk to a friend, family, a therapist, or reach out to the 988 Lifeline, please know you’re not alone. You deserve support and compassion.

  • "Some losses change our entire world... forever." by Jenna Lowthert Losing someone you love to suicide is a kind of pain that words can’t fully capture. It is a grief that reshapes everything, your memories, your milestones, even how you see the world. The questions, the what-ifs, and the heartbreak never truly go away. You learn to carry the weight, but it never truly leaves you. If you have experienced this kind of loss, please know your grief is valid. Your love for them does not end; talking about them, saying their name, sharing your story are powerful ways of remembering them and healing.

  • Suicide prevention works, and it starts with awareness, compassion, and connection. Learn the warning signs: changes in behavior, withdrawal, hopelessness, giving away possessions, or talking about being a burden can all be red flags. Don’t wait for someone to ask for help; check in with your loved ones, especially those who may be struggling with their mental health. A simple conversation, a kind word, or just being there can truly save a life. You don’t need to have all the answers, just show that you care.

  • It’s heartbreaking that dedicated support for the LGBTQ+ community was removed today from the 988 National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. Everyone deserves to feel seen, heard, and supported, especially during moments of crisis. Please know you can still reach out to 988 and ask for help. Your identity is valid, your feelings matter, and your life is worth fighting for. You are not alone. Please reach out. ❤️

  • The semicolon (;) is more than just a punctuation mark... it is a powerful symbol of hope and continuation. In writing, a semicolon is used when an author could have ended a sentence, but chose not to. In life, it represents a moment when someone could have given up, but chose to keep going. For many, the semicolon is a reminder that their story isn’t over. It is used to honor those who struggle with mental health, to remember those we have lost to suicide, and to support those still fighting.

  • We live in a world where people post happy pictures but hide their pain in silence. Smiles can be deceiving, and sometimes the ones who seem the happiest are quietly struggling the most. Check on your happy friends. Check on the strong ones, the funny ones, the ones who always say, “I’m fine.” A simple message, a kind word, or just being there can make more of a difference than you know. Everyone needs support, especially those who seem like they don’t.

  • When you say their name, you're not reminding us that they died, you are showing us that you remember they lived. That their life meant something, that they are still loved, still remembered, and still a part of our story. Speaking their name keeps their memory alive. It brings comfort, not pain to most of us. So please, don’t be afraid to say their name. It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give to those of us who are grieving. However, there are times when saying their names can be triggering for some, especially in moments of deep grief. Please be mindful and gentle. Everyone’s journey with loss is different, and honoring that difference is an act of compassion.

  • Depression is real. It’s not just sadness, and it’s not something you can “snap out of.” If you’re struggling, please know that you’re not alone and you don’t have to go through it in silence. Asking for help is a brave and powerful step. Talk to someone you trust, reach out to a mental health professional, or call/text 988 to connect with someone who understands and cares. The 988 Lifeline is available 24/7 and completely free. You are worthy of help.

  • I will always talk about her because she deserves to be remembered. Her name was Kathy. She had a beautiful soul and the purest of hearts. She brought light into the lives of those who knew her, and her presence continues to inspire me even in her absence. Kathy is the reason this page exists; sharing her story, her kindness, and the love she gave so freely is my way of keeping her memory alive. Grief doesn't end, and neither does love. I will keep saying Kathy's name. I will keep telling her story because remembering her is the most beautiful and powerful way to honor the incredible person she was.

  • Suicide is not the answer. No matter how heavy things feel right now, there is help, there is hope, and there are people who care about you. You don’t have to face this alone. Please, reach out. Talk to someone you trust or call or text 988 to connect with a trained crisis counselor, 24/7 and free. Your life matters more than you know. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. You deserve support and healing.

  • If you are struggling with thoughts of suicide, please know that talking about it can save your life. You don't have to carry the weight alone. Opening up to someone whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, therapist, or trained counselor can be the first step toward healing. Support is always available. You can call or text 988 anytime to connect with compassionate professionals who are available to listen and help, 24/7, at no cost. You are not a burden, you are not alone, and your life matters more than you know. Reaching out could change everything.

  • If you can’t understand why someone is still grieving, consider yourself lucky. It means you haven’t experienced the kind of loss that changes you forever, the kind that lingers long after the world has moved on. Grief has no timeline. For those who are carrying grief, it can resurface in waves, sometimes unexpectedly. Instead of questioning their pain, offer compassion. Your empathy can be a powerful reminder that they are not alone.

  • Love is powerful, but sometimes the weight of depression is too heavy for even the deepest love to heal alone. That is why it is important to learn the warning signs of depression and suicidal thoughts and to check on your loved ones who are struggling with their mental health...in their moments of darkness, your kind words and caring actions could save their lives.

  • Suicide is a Leading Cause of Death in the U.S. According to the CDC, over 49,000 lives were lost to suicide in 2023 which is an average of one every 11 minutes. Suicide is the top 11 causes of death nationally, and remains the 2nd leading cause for individuals ages 10–34.

  • Men, your mental health matters. Too many men ignore their struggles because of fear or shame, believing they have to “tough it out” or stay silent. But it takes strength to acknowledge when you are hurting and courage to ask for help. You don’t have to do this alone. It’s okay to open up and to seek support. Your feelings matter and your life matters.

  • If you're looking for a sign to stay alive, this is it! You are enough just as you are and your life matters. Please reach out to your loved ones and a mental health professional if you are struggling with your mental health. You can also call or text 988 for help.

  • Suicide is a silent crisis. It was the 2nd leading cause of death for ages 10–14 and 25–34, and the 3rd for ages 15–24. Please check on your “happy” friends, they may smile on the outside, but silently struggle on the inside. These numbers are more than statistics, they are real lives and real people who felt alone.

  • People who are depressed or suicidal may not always say they’re struggling, but they often show signs nonverbally. Recognizing these behaviors can help you intervene early and potentially save a life.

  • Stopping suicide starts with all of us. Suicide prevention isn’t just the work of professionals, it is a shared responsibility. Every one of us can make a difference by learning the warning signs, showing compassion, and checking in on those around us. A simple act of kindness or a supportive message or phone call can truly save a life. We can create a culture where no one feels alone and is not afraid or ashamed to ask for help. Together, we can stop suicide.

  • Your mental health matters. Please ask for help if you are struggling with your mental health. Call or text 988 to speak to a counselor 24/7.

  • Robin Williams's powerful message has a profound impact on mental health: “Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about; be kind, always.” Many people carry invisible burdens such as depression, anxiety, trauma, and grief. You may not see their struggles, but your kindness could be the light they need during dark moments. We can listen without judgment and show compassion to one another. As Robin Williams wisely said, "Let's be kind. Always." You never know whose life it might save.

  • Strength isn’t about staying silent, it’s about having the courage to ask for help and to share your story. Every man deserves the space to talk about what he’s going through without judgment. It’s time to change the conversation...Don’t say “Man up.” ....Say “Speak up.” We need to break the stigma so people don't feel afraid or ashamed to ask for help.

  • Silence can be dangerous, but a conversation can be life-saving. Learn the warning signs, be present, and check in with your loved ones. You never know who might be struggling, and your words and support can save a life.

  • Attention parents, please be mindful of your actions and reactions in your household; the little ones are watching. What might seem like small arguments or disagreements can result in lifelong trauma and mental health issues for your child.

  • In 2023, the suicide rate among males in the US was approximately four times higher than that of females. While men make up 50% of the population, they account for nearly 80% of all suicides. We must break the stigma that keeps so many men from speaking up, seeking help, and receiving support. Mental health is health. Check in on the men in your life. Encourage open conversations. Remind them it's okay to ask for help.

  • You Are Enough.... just as you are. You don’t need to have it all figured out and you don’t need to be perfect. Nobody is perfect. Check in with yourself. Make space for rest and ask for help when you need it.

  • Mental health doesn't discriminate, yet men are often left struggling in silence. The Facts: 1 in 8 men will experience a mental health condition such as depression, anxiety, or PTSD in their lifetime. Men are less likely than women to seek help for mental health struggles. In many countries, including the UK, the US, and Australia, suicide is one of the leading causes of death in men under 50. In the U.S., around 75% of all suicide deaths are men. Let us normalize mental health support for men.

  • The world is a better place with you in it. If you're struggling, please know that your life matters. Your presence matters. Take care of your mental health the way you would your physical health. Reach out, speak up, and ask for help. You don’t have to face your struggles alone.

  • Men are often told to “man up,” “stay strong,” or “don’t show weakness.” Mental health doesn’t care about stereotypes. The truth is, men struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, and burnout just like anyone else. They feel pressure, they feel pain, and they deserve the same space to talk about their mental health without shame. Asking for help doesn’t make them weak... it makes them brave. Speaking up doesn’t make them less of a man...it makes them more human. Let’s normalize honest conversations and support the men in our lives because mental health has no gender, and everyone deserves to heal.

  • It doesn’t matter how old you are, where you're from, what you've achieved, or how strong you appear on the outside, depression can affect anyone. You can be surrounded by people and still feel alone. You can smile in every photo and still be fighting a silent battle. You can have a great job, a loving family, and everything “going right”, and still feel like you’re drowning. That’s the reality of depression. It doesn’t always look like sadness. It’s not always visible. The truth is, we never know what someone is going through behind closed doors. Check in on your loved ones, ask the difficult questions, and be the safe space they might desperately need.

  • We all have the power to make a difference. If someone you love is struggling with their mental health. Reach out. Ask the difficult questions. Even if it feels uncomfortable...those conversations could save a life. Talking about suicide does not plant the idea...it opens the door to hope, to help, and to healing. Your voice, support, and presence matter more than you know. Together, we can break the silence and save lives.

  • Bullying is not just harmless teasing...it can deeply wound a person’s sense of self and impact their mental health for a long time. When someone is bullied, they may feel isolated, anxious, depressed, or even hopeless. These are not just feelings...they are real consequences that can affect every part of their life. No one deserves to feel worthless or scared because of how others treat them. We all have a responsibility to stand up, speak out, and show kindness. A few words can tear someone down, but they can also build someone up.

  • In 2023, over 49,000 people died by suicide in the U.S. That is one life lost every 11 minutes, according to the CDC. These are not just numbers... they are people; family, friends, siblings, coworkers, and neighbors. Mental health struggles are real and often silent. Please check in on your people. Be gentle with yourself. You never know what someone is carrying.

  • The holidays can be overwhelming for many. Please check on your loved ones, especially those who are struggling with their mental health. The 988 suicide and crisis lifeline is available 24-7 and all conversations are confidential.

This is Alberto … and this is his story

Thank you @Alberto Suarez for having the strength to make the right decision. You are an amazing person, and I wish only the best for you in this new journey. As for your voice note, it brought tears to my eyes and peace to my soul, knowing that the work I am doing on behalf of my Kathy is making a difference.

Thank you for staying!

Be Kind…Always

Robin Williams's powerful message has a profound impact on mental health: “Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about; be kind, always.”

Many people carry invisible burdens such as depression, anxiety, trauma, and grief. You may not see their struggles, but your kindness could be the light they need during dark moments. We can listen without judgment and show compassion to one another. As Robin Williams wisely said, "Let's be kind. Always." You never know whose life it might save.

Attn: Mom and Dad

People who are depressed or suicidal may not always say they’re struggling, but they often show signs nonverbally. Recognizing these behaviors can help you intervene early and potentially save a life.
Here are non-verbal signs that someone may be depressed, suicidal, and silently asking for help:
. Withdrawal from family, friends, or activities they once enjoyed
. Sudden isolation or spending more time alone than usual
. Neglecting personal hygiene or appearance (not bathing, grooming, or changing clothes)
. Changes in sleep (insomnia, sleeping too much)
. Eating changes (loss of appetite or overeating)
. Fatigue or low energy, moving or speaking slower than usual
Please check on your loved ones and ask the difficult questions. Talking about suicide could save their lives.

If you or someone you know is in Mental distress, CALL or TEXT 988 or go to https://988lifeline.org for help.

A suicide prevention safety plan is a personalized, practical tool to help guide you through difficult moments. It provides clear steps you can follow to keep yourself safe when you're feeling overwhelmed, depressed, or having thoughts of suicide. Creating a step-by-step plan in advance can make a big difference. When a crisis hits, you will have a guide to help you focus, find support, and move toward safety one step at a time. Make sure your safety plan is easy to access when you need it most. Whether it's written down or saved on your phone, having it ready can be a powerful way to protect yourself in moments of distress.

Here is the link for a PDF version of the plan. https://988lifeline.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/SafetyPlan_SAMHSA.pdf

For more information, please go to https://988lifeline.org.

Suicide Prevention Plans Work

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Suicide Prevention is Everyday

As we come together to share our stories of loved ones we lost to suicide, we do so in the hopes of helping others through their darkest moments. The first part of this video is of Kathy’s dad walking in the Pyrenees to honor Kathy’s 27th birthday in 2024 and the second part is one of his life’s greatest moments in 2019 … their father-daughter dance. 💔

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  • "Thank you for what you are doing. I looked at your site last night, and it is powerful. Please keep it up. Truly, you are an angel to be doing this work. It would be easy to sit around and grieve, but you are making a difference. I truly believe you will save lives. I have suffered from depression throughout my life, so I know how important it is to raise awareness and get people help. You are doing something amazing. I love your compassion for other families."

  • “Thank you for creating this page. My best friend suffered from mental health issues and took his life in January, and pages like this, if he had followed them or known about more of them, could have saved his life. Unfortunately, it didn’t work that way with him, but I’m so glad you exist to help others struggling. So, thank you. Pages like this are helpful to so many people, I’m glad they exist, and I’m glad you exist.”

  • “You have a perspective as a parent. Sometimes it's hard for youth today to educate adults because many adults think, "you're too young to understand." I strongly believe having a narrative from your perspective can make more adults/parents open to listening and engaging with the topic of mental health and its importance.”

  • "Thank you for being a voice in this that is so needed not just for me but for many of us suffering. Especially in a world that still doesn’t want to believe mental illnesses are real. So thank you for your heart and hard work, especially your kind words and guidance. I truly do appreciate you and your help, your voice, and your heart. I can’t thank you enough for being you and helping the world as much as you do."

  • "Some people let grief swallow them, but you continue to create beauty amidst your pain. Thank you for making a difference in the world. Your flowers remind me of the hope you are giving to others through your advocacy."

  • “Thank you for sharing this and for all that you are doing. I’m so sorry for your loss. As a person of faith, I am confident that she rejoices in every effort you are making to help others in her name, and will delight in sharing that joy with you one day.”

  • "Your page really resonated with me. I lost my brother to suicide in March, and it’s been difficult, to say the least. Thank you for spreading awareness."

  • “I checked out your profile, and your page and message are super powerful and so needed! Thank you for sharing.”

  • “I found your page here while looking for inspirational places after I lost my daughter to suicide. What you do is invaluable.”

  • "I love what you’re doing. One more person we help is one less person we lose to this disease!”

  • "Your website and all of your posts are amazing. I was looking at it earlier. I really think you are making a difference. Your post is helping others, and I know it helps me."

  • "Thanks for trying to help! I lost a nephew to suicide a year ago. It’s hard to find information to share that is sensitive to my family, which is still grieving his loss."

  • "Thank you so much for sharing these tips because social anxiety is something that I constantly struggle with. I will try some of these suggestions."

  • "Thank you for posting such great things all the time! I appreciate you."

  • There needs to be more light shined on this matter. Keep up the good work! The world needs your messages!

Check Out Our Interview With CanvasRebel Magazine

We had the pleasure of being interviewed by CanvasRebel Magazine. If you would like to learn about the background of In Her Name, our WHY, and a bit about the founder, click HERE. This is our first interview for In Her Name, so please share your comments and/or feedback. Thanks, and as always... BE KIND!

Here are some snippets from the interview:

“I could have prevented it if I had known that some of Kathy’s behaviors were symptomatic and indicative of severe depression. After this revelation, I made a personal commitment to raise awareness and help others suffering from mental health issues.”

“Together, we can work towards a future where mental health is openly discussed and supported, bringing comfort and assistance to those who need it the most.”

“During a long and fulfilling career in higher education, I found myself at a crossroads. In April 2022, I faced a heartbreaking tragedy when I lost my stepdaughter to suicide. This devastating event forced me to reevaluate my life’s direction.”

“After 40-plus hours of traveling, the plane landed in the US, and without words, my red puffy eyes and runny nose told a story of despair and loss.”

https://canvasrebel.com/meet-dr-michelle-v-boodoo/

When we are experiencing voices in our head or can hear our self we just need to stop, breath and pray and meditate to bring us some peace.

Self-Help Tools

Tools, resources, and a support network could help you cope with mental health issues and are essential for getting help to move forward. Click here to find tools and resources provided by 988lifeline.org.

If you or someone you know is in immediate distress or is thinking about hurting themselves, CALL or TEXT the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 or the toll-free TTY number at 1-800-799-4TTY (4889). or go to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline website at https://988lifeline.org

Having love from mom or grandmother can make all the difference in the world and we just need to open up to them so they know we need help.

Tools for Loved Ones

Tools, resources, and a support network could help your loved ones cope with mental health issues and are essential for getting help to move forward. Click here to find tools and resources provided by 988lifeline.org.

If you or someone you know is in immediate distress or is thinking about hurting themselves, CALL or TEXT the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 or the toll-free TTY number at 1-800-799-4TTY (4889). or go to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline website at https://988lifeline.org

Have you ever said "I need a friend" only to find out there are people all around us that need and want friends.

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<>Inhale Positivity <> Exhale Negativity

<>Inhale Positivity <> Exhale Negativity

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